Sunday, February 26, 2012

A Pictorial - 2011

Baby Boy Dancing in his Kilt at the Highland Games

Baby Girl Dancing to Albannach
Little Drummer getting down with his bad self
Is it fall or still summer?
October Evening at Buckhorn Lake
Valley View Ferry, Madison County Side
Madison County Morning Mist
My Star Wars Bobblehead Collection - Photoshopped
The Crazy New Birthday Puupy
Crazy Older Christmas Puppy
The Old Man of the House
Evil Kitty

Friday, February 24, 2012

Teach a boy to cook and he might make some lucky girl a great husband

I am the cooking merit badge counselor for my son's Boy Scout Troop.  While you might wonder what a Boy Scout needs to know about cooking other than how to start a fire and cook a hot dog, think about the number one advice women have for their single guy friends - cook her a meal.  Every man should have two or three go-to meals he can cook to impress.  This does not include ramen noodles unless he has some twist where he seasons it with fish sauce and seaweed, adds some veggies and shrimp or prawns and pairs it with a light and airy white wine. 

Outside of being able to impress a girl and catch himself a worthy woman, a boy should want to be able to feed himself something edible and not just utilitarian.  I have never believed in the old adage of eating to live and not living to eat.  Food is fundamental to our happiness...our evolution...our desire to live.  Food brings people together.  Food gives the most tame of us a medium in which to be creative and exciting.  Food facilitates communication.  Food, in and of itself, is not evil.  Do not blame the food, blame the bad eaters.  It's not the food that kills you.  It's the over eating.  It's the lack of balance.  It's the dearth of appreciation for complex and robust flavors.

Teach your son to enjoy the texture and richness of whole wheat bread and why would he ever turn to plain, tasteless white bread?  (Unless he's eating a BLT or a cucumber sandwich.)  Teach him to season his food with a modicum of salt, herbs, spices, etc. and he won't feel compelled to salt a wonderful, brie-stuffed hamburger before even tasting it and raising the ire of his wife who had presented the meal with a great deal of pride.  (It still gets under my skin every time he picks up a salt shaker.)  Teach him to understand the science of cooking and maybe he'll surprise his wife by cooking her a meal instead of always asking what she will cook in between working, cleaning, running around, and going to school.  - Not that this is ever done to me.

And so, I have been teaching my son (and my daughter) to appreciate their food since they were little bitty bugs.  They have always eaten and enjoyed their vegetables, grains, meats, fruits, etc.  My son used to ask me at every meal what his broccoli would do for him.  Or his milk.  Or his grilled chicken.  He knows protein helps his muscles grow and keeps his energy up.  He is aware that his milk makes his bones strong and his smile beautiful.  He loves that his whole wheat bread helps him poop.

In the last few months, he has entered into the realm of learning to cook.  On Mardi Gras, to fulfill his requirement 7d for his Cooking Merit Badge and to get a chance to play with knives and fire (another good reason to learn how to cook), he and I made a chicken and andouille etoufee from scratch.  I think he enjoys eating it even more because of his pride in his accomplishment.  And, I kow some lucky girl will get a great husband...in thirty years or so.

Here he is demonstrating his mad knife skills











And playing with his chicken
Learning his weights and measures
Stirring his roux - yes, he's making a roux


Cutting his butter for the browning of the chicken
And, the browning of the chicken

His etoufee pre-chicken and andouille

Our dinner spread







DINNER!

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Money and Emotion

I am an accountant.  I know how to budget.  I know how to manipulate the numbers until the situation looks decent if not great.  But, no matter what I know, no matter how I plan, my numbers acumen does not parlay into control of my finances. 

Every once in a while I get bored at work and start playing around, creating budgets on Excel.  Each time it excites and depresses me.  I am excited to see that I can save money.  That it is still possible.  But I am so depressed at the state I have allowed to get myself to.  I will be forty in four years and I have no savings.  I do not own a house.  My first child will be going to school in a couple of years and I have no idea how I will pay for it.  I have no security. 

Now, I am faced with having to buy a new car after mine was totalled in an accident.  I still owe $1,000 after the insurance payment.  My husband and I have been driving to work together for the last week in a attempt to save up a down payment, but that vehicle has stopped running.  Something about the neutral safety switch not working.  I applied fo ra loan with my credit union and am awaiting the decision.  I have only a niggling doubt htat it will be declined, but I am certain the interest rate will be exorbitant.  My credit rating is not great.  Not because I pay late or default.  But because my debt-to-income ratio is way too high. 

So, I have my new plan for the year.  It makes Greece and Italy's austerity measures look like a spending spree.  It's a good plan.  The question is whether I'll be able to stick to it.  My husband is no help.  Although he doesn't really spend our household money without checking with me first (he has an allowance for personal expenses), I don't often say no.  And when I start thinking about going out to eat or going on a small trip, I get no objections from him.  Neither one of us works well as a deterrent to excessive spending.

Even worse, I hate feeling so constricted.  And I have become adept at swiftly and subconsciously pushing aside the nay-saying voices in my head.  In fact, it is entirely possible that those voices are indeed mute.  And I am blind to their sign language.  When I want to buy something, I don't take the time to think about it unless the price is so high even I can't ignore the expense.  But, all those $50 dinners and $30 store purchases and $3 iTunes buys add up quickly. 

I have my plan.  My resolution this year is to control myself.  Stick to my budget.  Remember I have one.  Dig my family and myself out of this hole.